98% Right, 100% Real: Lessons in Growth, Grace, and Letting Go”

🌻 You Can Be 98% Right and Still Get the Wrong Result- (Baba Aunkh Aukhu)

This weekend reminded me of one of life’s quiet but powerful truths: You can be 98% right with your efforts and still 100% wrong with the outcome.

At first, that realization can sting — especially for those of us who give deeply, love fully, and plan carefully. We show up, we give our best, and sometimes life still unfolds in ways we didn’t expect. The project doesn’t land the way we envisioned. The conversation doesn’t bring the healing we hoped for. The relationship, the idea, the dream — it shifts.

But what I’ve learned during my journey, is that being “right” in your effort doesn’t guarantee the outcome — and that’s okay. Because growth isn’t found in perfect endings. It’s found in the process of showing up, again and again, with love, integrity, faith---and a change in perspective.

🍂 Change Is Both Beautiful and Necessary

With the change of the seasons, I’m reminded that change itself is a divine teacher. Each new phase — whether in parenting, purpose, or passion — invites us to release what no longer serves us and make room for what’s next.

Just like the trees don’t mourn the leaves they shed, we too are called to let go with grace. The shedding isn’t loss — it’s renewal. It’s the spirit’s quiet way of preparing us for what’s ahead.

And sometimes, when our efforts don’t produce the outcome we imagined, it isn’t failure — it’s redirection. Life is simply shifting us toward a better rhythm, a deeper truth, or a softer way of seeing things.

Because every season, every stumble, every shift offers us exactly what we need most:🌾 a change in perspective. Sometimes in our analysis and grieving, we need to stop and ask ourselves:

• Are focused on function and purpose rather then outcome?

• Are we holding on to things that we we should not hold on to?

• Are we wishing on someone's else's star , instead focusing on the lighted direction that is guided by our own?

• Are we making moves and decisions from the energy of fear or freedom?

• Are we being courageous or just careful?

• Are we giving ourselves enough grace?

🌿 Grace in the Middle Ground

We live in a world that praises results — grades, money, titles, achievements — but the true lessons are found in the middle ground: the place where we are learning, adjusting, and still believing.

There’s grace in being almost right. There’s wisdom in seeing that the outcome doesn’t always define the effort. And there’s freedom in knowing that you can do your best and still trust the rest to divine timing. Because sometimes, it’s not about being perfect — it’s about being present.

💛 Here’s to Growth, Grace, and Gratitude — On the Go

As I move into this new season, I’m choosing to honor my efforts, not just my outcomes. I’m choosing peace over perfection, purpose over pressure, and presence over performance.

Here’s to growth, to grace, and to gratitude — on the go, with love and intention in every step.

If this season is asking you to release, trust, or start again — take a deep breath. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.

✨ With love and light,Kemi

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